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Should I Leave DA?

Journal Entry: Thu Aug 28, 2014, 5:54 PM



Something has been eating me up as of late.

Should I leave DA because I am unworthy of being in a circle of friends due to being busy with other things?

I was removed from an FB group with said circle of friends due to being quiet with other things, such as roleplaying on Adium with JackSpicer29 , drawing,  and getting ready for school.  It made me feel unworthy of being on DA as long as I have other commitments and/or general lazienss.  To make matters worse, I got kicked out of a group chat as well due to being quiet and other things, yet other people who never talked got to stay.  I guess you have to only commit to other things and put aside your education and/or role playing in order to be in that circle...

Since I have no friends on my side to back me up, I guess I 'll quit DA and focus my life into other things, since being busy means you don't have time for other stuff...

Should I stay, or should I go?

  • Mood: Regretful
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:iconlaptopgeek:
LaptopGeek Featured By Owner Aug 29, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I understand you had a fight with some person in our group but shouldn't leave dA because of it, you got all these other friends.

If do decide to leave, please, don't ever deactivate your account, unless you reactivate by 14 days, you'll regret it. If you must leave, just hide the widgets like I did with my old accounts.
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Urvy1A Featured By Owner Aug 29, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Right now, I am thinking about weither to stay or go, and I won't deactivate my account.
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SomePkmn-LovingDude Featured By Owner Aug 29, 2014
Don't go! :(
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Urvy1A Featured By Owner Aug 29, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
At this point, I am still thinking.
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SomePkmn-LovingDude Featured By Owner Aug 29, 2014
Well, okay. But I hope things turn out well.
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Urvy1A Featured By Owner Aug 29, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
K
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Toongrrl Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014
You can stay, you don't have to be on it a butt load of times, whatever makes you relax
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Urvy1A Featured By Owner Aug 29, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yeah, but it requires more thought.
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Toongrrl Featured By Owner Aug 29, 2014
Ah. 
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Urvy1A Featured By Owner Aug 29, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yup
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LentiumHiesben Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Perhaps taking a break for a while from the website might be a better idea then quitting, it's what I do and it keeps me from burning out
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Urvy1A Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I guess that could help.
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NeoPrankster Featured By Owner Edited Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I don't do as much as I have done in years past here. Sometimes this site just gets too addicting.

As far as leaving the site, it's your decision and I totally understand if you want to.
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Urvy1A Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I dunno if I could though, the problem is that I do have friends that actually care about me, busy or not.
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NeoPrankster Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Are you not getting as much feedback on your pictures as you used to?
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Urvy1A Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
It's not that, it's about losing the will to enjoy DA when you have other things in your mind.
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NeoPrankster Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Like school, work, home, family gatherings, conventions, ball games, etc?

I can understand.
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Urvy1A Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yes
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:iconneoprankster:
NeoPrankster Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Same story here.
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Urvy1A Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Ah
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EarthVStheDerek Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014
Leaving sounds unnecessary. Though, I breather from the site could help.

And, you have other friends and their streams. So, you're not really kicked out of the circle.
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Urvy1A Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
True, but i need more support and input.
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JIMENOPOLIX Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Aww, no. Don't go.
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Urvy1A Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I dunno what to do to be honest, if I return to the group and the chat, I can stay on DA.  If not, I dunno what to do.
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Life-is-the-bubbles Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You can stay here. Just ignore them and do what you need to do with drawing, etc, etc. You can always come back on DA to check messages and post your drawings. 
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Urvy1A Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I dunno, they are my friends, but it is hard to commit.
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